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What really turns you on?
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| blade87 |
Posted on 28-02-2011 00:53
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Here's a question for both guys and girls. For the guys: what turns you on more, the hoop or the ear/earlobe? For me, its a girl's ear which is a huge turn on, and if she's wearing a hoop, then its all the more effective. 
And to the girls: do you like the idea of turning on guys (like me) with your ears, or does it seem gross that someone might be turned on simply by playing with your ears, touching or fondling the earlobes? |
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| hlover |
Posted on 28-02-2011 17:00
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For me it's the earrings, though I do find the ears themselves to be attractive. I love to suck or nibble on a bare lobe, and I think the girls enjoy it just as much. |
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| SilverHoopLover |
Posted on 28-02-2011 17:04
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As a guy I will say I like it all. I mean the earrings alone look nice (there are some who think hoops look trashy - my opinion is they only look trashy if the girl is dressed trashy). In fact I'd even go so far as to say they can look very classy if the girl is dressed well.
However I love the way they swing with the lobe if the girl, for example, turns her head quickly and they swing back and forth. I've said this before on another thread or pic or something but all the same its REALLY sexy.
Also having played with a girl's earlobe/earring while seducing her I will say this. The girl I was chatting up seemed to like it.  |
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| blade87 |
Posted on 04-03-2011 02:26
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The few girls I've spoken to claim they consider playing with ears or being aroused by them rather gross, so I was wondering if this is the standard opinion..
Where are the girls on this forum? 
Edited by blade87 on 04-03-2011 21:30
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| SilverHoopLover |
Posted on 04-03-2011 23:32
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Only met one girl who said she didn't like it and tbh it may also be the way you do it. The ear is a very sensitive area so it could be just that a lot of men just don't know what they're doing?
If you want an opinion on this sort of thing just go to Google, found a few results:
http://www.girlsaskguys.com/Flirting-Questions/28511-do-girls-like-to-be-kissed-on-the-ear-lobe.html
For example with one girl, I would run my hand down her hair, to her ear/earring (nice if she's wearing dangles or indeed hoops ) and onto her neck, but with a gentle light touch. And when you kiss her ears don't drench them in spit and no sticking your tongue down her ear hole! |
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| blade87 |
Posted on 07-03-2011 10:47
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Oh well, I just used my fingers (never my mouth!). One girl I tried it on liked it so much that she wanted me to do it inside her ear which seemed to arouse her. Lol she even gave me a q-tip to twirl it inside slowly which turned her on a lot.
Anyway maybe it is best to do it discreetly. But I just cant help thinking about playing with the ears esp when they have hoops on. Its a huge turn on for me and so I hope I run into a girl who feels the same way so its mutual |
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| Robert Likeglass |
Posted on 07-03-2011 18:29
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Most anything to do with "turn-ons" are best felt rather then talked about. Just play softly and look for the response. When you think about sex, you think about what you are feeling or experiencing. That's one of the reasons that hard-core porn often looks gross. When described in a text format, sex itself sounds gross, yet we sure remember what the event "feels" like!
Often, turn-ons are embarrassing, so if you ask you will probably get a negative response, even if it would have turned out good. Just play, and work you way around to things. |
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