Ok am I the only strange one, but I love the back of my ears as much as the front. I have very long hair, but on special days I like to wear my hair up and see the back where the hoop goes through. It just sucks because it is hard to see it on myself. I do however always give an extended look to other women.
I always look at the back if the hair is up! I like to see how things are attached! Some are stylish, such as endless hoops that look like the name implies. Sometimes its a stud clasp or screw-back. Others, it's the classic leaver. Once saw a girl that had the flip leavers on, and then stud clasps on top of those! Guess she really didn't want them to come off!